Is he just extra cranky?

Well my husband works a lot too and I stay home but I definitely don't allow my husband to speak to me this way. I simply tell my husband if you are not happy with it do it yourself. He is only ho,e one day a week anyway. What I have found works is I let my kids play all day and clean up and hour or two before my husband gets home. This way I am able to sit and play and relax with my kids all day and have the house straighted up before he gets home. Ive also found that if dinner is done when he gets home he is happy. I make dinner for my two little ones at 5 pm and make extra for my husband and re heat it when he gets home. I have the bed made and ready for sleep and I have his work clothes set out for the next day. I deep clean my house once a week on his day off while he plays with the kids and the rest of the week I just keep on top of the little messes and it stays generally clean. I have a three year old and a one year old and I am expecting again. I had many problems with my husband and house work when we first got together but we worked through them as the years have gone on I am getting better at it and because we truly love each other we were able to compromise and work through it. I f your boyfriend truly loves you he will be willing to work with you and understand that even thought you may not work your body is not the same right now and it is hard to clean but you will do your best. You should also let him know that you really are not supposed to be using cleaning chemicals anyway while you are pregnant. If he truly loves you he will understand and be willing to work with you. If you are the one that stays home and does the house work you are the one that makes the schedule and the house run. If he is not comfortable with the way you do this then he needs to get over it or find a new someone. I wish you the best of luck and hope you are able to find a middle ground with your boyfriend.